How to get your lunch for free (field report)

I witnessed one of the most beautiful and simple ‘pickups’ I’ve ever seen yesterday.

It was beautiful because the Man felt strong and in control of his world…

…and the woman left smiling and feeling like the most beautiful woman on earth.

It was simple because there was no planned approaches, no techniques, no routines, no structures, just two people sharing who they are, what they stand for, and what they want to do with their life.

This is how it all went down:


“Hi” he boomed confidently. His voice echoed throughout the small restaurant.

The intended landing point for his words was a beautiful woman who was on her way out of the restaurant with a few friends.

“Hello” She was a little taken back. There was an intensity in his eyes that she wasn’t used to. “Are you having lunch by yourself?”

“No. I saved this seat for you.” He replied without shifting his gaze. There was no hint of a line or false pretense about it. It was simply an honest statement of his truth.

She blushed “Oh…” Her friends were leaving. The waiter scurried around the restaurant, an old ford choked by on the street, an old man slurped his soup, and they just stood there. Eyes locked. “Umm…” She leant out the door and yelled to her friends “I’ll just be two minutes!”

With a shy smile and a flick of her hair, she turned and waltzed towards the table.

The next 20 minutes more closely resembled art than conversation.

Their words conveyed their thoughts and experiences.

Their eyes shared their passions and desires.

There was such an intensity to their conversation. Even though they were fully clothed, it felt like they were having sex.

If all you saw was their eye’s you’d be convinced that they were two naked lovers, tasting the others naked skin for the very first time.

I only heard brief snippets of their conversation:

“I’m a singer…”

“You have such beautiful eyes…”

“Who ARE you?”

“Is this real?”

It was only after her friends knocked on the restaurant window for the second time, that she finally managed to tear herself away from the table.

This was only after hurriedly scribbling her name and number on a napkin before returning the pen to the counter.

“Please call me. I would love to see you again.”

And with that, she walked out the door. Not before slipping one final look at the dream she’d just walked out of.

It was really fascinating to watch this guy. Even when she left, his demeanour didn’t change. The intense passion and fascination he held for life still burned in his eyes.

It was easy to see why she was so enchanted.

He finished his meal, picked up his bags, and walked over to settle his bill.

“The young lady you were talking to already paid. She said to say it was her pleasure…”

“Oh… Really… Ok.” He folded the napkin that held her number and slipped it into his pocket.

With that, he slowly walked out the door.


The most fascinating thing about this was the world he created when he talked to her.

He was there to talk to her. That was it. There was no care of anyone or anything else around him.

He didn’t care what was going on around him or what anyone else thought so she just didn’t either. He created a space for her that was so deep and so real that it just drew her in.

He knew what he wanted and just went after it.

It was truly a pleasure to watch.

It was a great reminder of how powerful you can be when you’re able to let go of living your life by anyone else’s standards and take create the life you desire.

If you want to live your life in this way, then something fundamental has to change.

If you want to find out what that something is, that something that will allow you to live your life on your terms, and become the kind of Man who naturally and effortlessly attracts women, download Seduction Community Sucks from the right hand side.


4 thoughts on “How to get your lunch for free (field report)”

  1. Get we get some more info about this guy??? Is he one of your students? Just some random confident guy you were observing? A friend?? Cause that’s just DAMN awesome.

  2. So. It is THAT simple but we complicate it?

    So the best way to attract a women is :

    1) Talk
    2) Be normal
    3) Deal with it.


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