Vaom replied to the topic Can I be helpful to women when they ask without being unattractive? in the forum Dating, Sex, and Relationships 1 day, 12 hours ago
One example is that I could tell that this one girl really liked me, and then she asked me for help with something that she couldn’t do by herself, and because I knew it would only take like 30 seconds I was like OK. And I could tell over the course of the next few days that she started to lose interest in me and she barely talks to me anymore.
Vaom started the topic Can I be helpful to women when they ask without being unattractive? in the forum Dating, Sex, and Relationships 2 days, 10 hours ago
If a girl asks me to do something for her (e.g., if they were to ask me to clean something for them, go and get something for them) I almost always never do it (unless maybe I was already planning on doing it anyway), regardless of how effortless it is, because I have this aversion to being ordered around. Also, if they ask for help with something…[Read more]
Vaom replied to the topic Why is neediness a deal-breaker for women but not for men? in the forum Dating, Sex, and Relationships 2 weeks, 2 days ago
Also, not only does this needy behaviour cause men to be unattractive, but it almost seems like women demonstrate a visceral hatred for men who display this behaviour, whereas at most men will just find this behaviour very annoying and exhausting if they see it in a woman.
Vaom started the topic Why is neediness a deal-breaker for women but not for men? in the forum Dating, Sex, and Relationships 2 weeks, 2 days ago
Why is it that coming off as needy is something that women find so unattractive that it is a deal-breaker for them, but this is not so for men? I’ve noticed that with pretty much all the men that I’ve encountered, while they find neediness in women incredibly annoying, they will find a woman attractive despite this and will put up with a woman’s…[Read more]
Vaom replied to the topic How I feel about my life is incredibly volatile; am i not living my purpose? in the forum Mindset and Psychology 2 weeks, 2 days ago
I also catch myself constantly over-analysing my behaviour around women and second-guessing everything I’m doing around them which leads me to believe that I can’t really be very satisfied with my life. If I was, I presume that I wouldn’t be doing this.
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