I’ve got a foolproof way to improve self-esteem – become very good at achieving your goals.
It makes sense, doesn’t it?
If you can set yourself goals that you really want to achieve and you achieve them they’re you’re going to improve your self esteem.
I’ve also got a foolproof way to NOT improve self-esteem. Funnily enough, it’s the same way – become very good at achieving your goals.
Confused? There’s a very subtle element that you need to be aware of to avoid the same trap that a lot of people who’re searching for ‘how to improve self esteem’ fall into.
That subtle element you need to be aware of when you’re trying to improve your self esteem is the goals you’re setting. More specifically, if they’re outcome focused goals or action focused goals.
Outcome focused goals are goals that involve you achieving a specific outcome. These might be winning a race, getting a promotion, or getting a specific girl.
Action focused goals are goals that involve you completing a specific action. These might include you executing a specific running technique, working harder, or expressing how you feel to a specific girl.
If you focus on outcome focused goals to improve your self esteem then your self esteem is forever going to be at the mercy of the external environment. Why? Because you can never guarantee a specific outcome.
You can’t guarantee you’re going to win the race / get the promotion / get the girl. There are external factors at play that fall out of your sphere of influence. If achieving these goals falls outside your control, so does your self-esteem.
If you focus on action focused goals to improve yourself self-esteem then your self esteem is forever going to be in your control. Why? Because you can always control whether or not you choose to take an action.
You can’t guarantee that you’re going to win the race but you can guarantee that you try to execute a technique. And even if you fail to do so, you can always see why and work to improve it. The actions you take are in your control and as will be your self-esteem.
Stay dedicated to action focused goal and keep challenging yourself through those goals – that’s how to improve your self-esteem.
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