Having the mentality that the world is abundantly full of the things you desire is an incredibly empowering way to make yourself more attractive.
To men (get your mind out of the gutter).
Having an abundance mentality makes the process of attracting women so much easier.
The question is, though, if that mindset is incredibly beneficial to bringing new women into your life but you need women to in your life to develop that mindset – how do you develop it?
The standard dating community approach to developing abundance mentality is to fake-it-till-you-make-it.
From what I’ve seen, this is the more drawn out and arduous process, and I have a quicker way of getting there.
Firstly, if you base your mindset off external factors (the amount of women in your life, your level of ‘game’, etc), then you’re going to constantly be struggling.
You’re going to be constantly working to bolster the foundation of your mindset. And as soon as it starts to slip, you’re going to have issues. What I’ve discovered is that real abundance mentality comes from within.
So the way of developing abundance mentality I’ve discovered is NOT the standard community way, but from what I’ve seen it’s much more powerful.
The abundance mentality I’m talking about isn’t based off the abundance of women you have in your life. But rather, on what those women represent: happiness and fulfillment.
When you have an abundance of these in your life, then whether or not you have women becomes almost irrelevant.
This deep sense of happiness and personal fulfillment are both, in my opinion, tied into this concept of PURPOSE.
When you have purpose in your life – and not just any purpose – but your deep drive to effect the world, you’ll realise that there’s nothing you can get from a woman that comes even close to that.
No amount of perky tits or perfectly shaped arses, despite how nice they are, can compete even remotely with the fulfillment you get from living your purpose.
Whether or not they flake, don’t return calls, dick you around, it doesn’t matter. It doesn’t change how incredible your life is in any way.
Getting in touch with also has many amazing side effects when it comes to meeting women:
1) Like I said above, it doens’t matter what she does. It doesn’t effect you in any way because she has no ability to bring joy to your life like you do. Your sense of state does not rest with her.
2) Because you know what you want, you develop standards and principles about which of her behaviours you will tolerate and which you won’t – regardless of how good looking she is. So, you’re naturally screening and qualifying women.
3) As your life is happy and fulfilling, you’re constantly in a great state.
4) You know there’s nothing she can add to your life that you can’t get somewhere else. So, an abundance mentality permeates your every waking moment.
5) As your life is about moving towards your purpose, escalation becomes a natural part of who you are.
Living your purpose is the key to becoming a guy who naturally and effortlessly attracts women, everywhere he goes.
The big part of inner game work I do with guys is about getting them in touch with their deep purpose and desires and living them in every moment.