I’ve seen this mentioned on the forum more than once:
“I can’t attract women because I have this deep seeded belief that I’m just not worthy of a beautiful woman. Help?”
I started writing out a long article about the nature of beliefs and other such things, but I had a better idea.
This one seemed like much more fun so I went with it instead 🙂
3 Reasons Why Not Feeling Worthy Of A Beautiful Woman Is a Blessing
Contrary to what you might currently believe not feeling like you’re worthy of a beautiful woman is one of the greatest gifts you have.
It’s given you such a HUGE leap forward in becoming the free, internally fulfilled and naturally attractive guy you came to AI for.
I know it might not seem like it but let me show you why:
Reason 1: It Means You Have Nothing To Lose
Have you ever heard the saying: ‘The beauty of being on the bottom is that the only way is up’?
Well, you have now.
The reason I’m mentioning it is that it describes your situation perfectly.
If you don’t feel worthy of a beautiful woman, then you have nothing to lose by approaching her, complimenting her, sharing with her, laughing with her, or playing with her.
What’s the worst thing that could happen? She could say “No”?
How is that a problem?
You already knew that she wasn’t going to come home with you so it’s not like this is unexpected.
What could she do, say ‘No’ twice?
You weren’t going to ‘get’ her anyway so there’s no way you can go backwards from where you are.
But what if she doesn’t say ‘No’?
What if she actually stops and talks to you? What if she hangs around to chat?
What if you date and fall in love? Even if she if it doesn’t work out and she leaves you for one of her friends, you’ve still had the pleasure of her time.
You have nothing to lose and everything to gain here.
The only way is up!
Not feeling like you’re worthy of a beautiful woman is an incredible gift because it means you have nothing to lose.
Reason 2: It Separates You From Every Other Guy
What does every other guy do when he talks to a beautiful woman?
He tries to find a way to sleep with her.
He tries to trick her, manipulate her, and convince her that he’s the kind of Man she should be with.
This is usually the point in time that the neediness and outcome dependency kick in and she walks away.
If you don’t feel like you’re worthy of a beautiful woman, then when you approach (see above point), there’s no way she’s going to go home with you so you don’t even need to try.
She is never going to sleep with you, and you’ll never be able to convince her to sleep with you so give it up.
Don’t TRY to be cool.
Don’t TRY to be funny.
Don’t TRY to be exciting.
Don’t TRY to be seductive.
Don’t TRY to be anything you’re not and just focus on being real.
Share with her, fight with her, disagree with her, push her around, have fun, play, and joke with her.
You won’t just be another guy trying to convince her to give him her number.
You won’t be another guy who’s willing to sacrifice her standards, beliefs, and personality, just to get in her pants.
You’ll be the guy who has something honest, real, and powerful to share with her.
By not thinking you’re worthy of a beautiful woman, you’re already one step ahead of every guy who does because you’re THAT MUCH CLOSER to being the real, genuine, and powerful guy she’s looking for.
“But I can’t just be real with her. It’ll just come out as whining about not being worthy and all that shit…”
Great point. And a perfect segue onto Reason 3.
Reason 3: It Means You HAVE To Find Another Source Of Fulfilment
If you think you’re worthy of a beautiful woman, then you’re much more likely to rely on them to feel good about yourself.
If you think a supermodel is within your reach, then it’s FAR easier to fall into the trap of using her to determine your sense of worth in the world.
If you don’t think a beautiful woman is within your reach, then there’s no way you can rely on her to feel good.
You’re forced to find another way to experience the fulfilment, happiness, and satisfaction you’re looking for that doesn’t rely on the woman on your arm.
You’re forced to become the internally fulfilled, confident, and strong kind of Man that confident, radiant women are drawn to.
And when you live your life like this, then when you’re real, open, and honest with the beautiful woman you won’t feel worthy of, then it won’t come out as whiny.
You’ll be free to share yourself with her and have that sharing be exciting, interesting, and attractive, rather than needy and dependent.
There are FAR more benefits that come from not feeling like you’re worth than there are problems.
By not feeling worthy, you’re already halfway down the road to becoming internally fulfilled, free, and naturally attractive.
All you need to do now is make use of it.
So stop whining, get off your arse, and take advantage of all the amazing benefits now!
Here are five steps to take full advantage of your amazing situation
1. Stop blaming your lack of worthiness for your life situation and take advantage of all the amazing benefits that come from it
2. Start taking advantage by finding ways to feel independently fulfilled, happy, and free, despite the number of women in your life
3. If you see a beautiful woman, go and tell her. No seduction techniques, no approaching tactics, just be real, honest, and open. After all, the worst thing she can do is exactly what you expect her to do
4. Once you’ve started talking with her, just openly share your internal happiness rather than trying to get into her pants because you already know there’s no way you’re going to seduce her
5. See what happens
If you follow these 5 steps, the worst thing that will happen is that you become internally fulfilled and free and end up with a woman that you’re highly attracted to but probably isn’t likely to make it on the cover of any Men’s magazine.
The best thing that will happen is that you become internally fulfilled and free and end up with a woman that you’re highly attracted to AND is very likely to make it on the cover of any Men’s magazine.
Not a bad situation to be in if you ask me!